Sunday, June 25, 2017

Kink Reversals

I have read a few books by a particular author that will present a principle/strategy with one or two examples and then show how the "reversal" of that strategy can also work successfully.  Likewise, my kink interests can be reversed for sexy effect.  Last week Suzy and I found ourselves home alone around 5:30 or so.  She had to leave to pick up a child around 6:00.  When I realized this, I wanted sex.  I got naked and went downstairs.  She said no, we don't have time.  Fortunately, she changed her mind, went to the bathroom and joined me naked.  We did minimal foreplay - this was a quickie.  I got hard and rolled a condom onto my hard cock.  I inserted it inside her, and then slowly thrust with the Hitachi on her clit.  She came fairly fast.  She started to get me to come quickly with some dirty talking and tried to smack my nuts.  Not sure why this is, but with missionary, it's difficult for her to smack my nuts.  I moved my leg in an awkward position and she did swat them, it was just not sustainable for me.  Regardless, I came HARD.  Very intensely pleasurable orgasm for me.  My cock can "twitch" for a few minutes after a really intense orgasm, and that's what happened this time.  As I was in the post orgasmic basking, Suzy quickly got up and dressed and went to pick up the child.  No messy baby batter to contend with.

This is a "reversal" for many of my kinks and how I normally achieve a very intense orgasm.  Here's a rundown:


  • CFNM - yes, I walked around our house naked, but Suzy also got fully naked, and it was sexy to see her luscious tits during the sex act.  Plus, it was daylight and I am a visual guy.  It was nice seeing her naked body.  Reversal of CFNM kink.
  • Prolonged male arousal - I would say that my orgasm is usually more intense the longer I am stimulated.  When Suzy "edges" me close to orgasm repeatedly, that's when I usually have the most intense orgasms, and if she's giving me a handjob, sometimes I will shoot to my chest, or over my shoulders.  This was a particularly intense orgasm, but it was from a quickie.  Reversal.
  • Nighttime sex - we almost always have sex late at night.  Suzy is a night owl.  I really, really enjoy daytime sex.  I feel more refreshed and frankly I'm not really the stereotypical male that falls asleep right when I come.  Sex actually energizes me.  Perhaps this contributed quite a bit to the intensity of the orgasm.  Reversal.
  • Condom sex - most snipped men probably never foresee wrapping their cocks up again.  I do think condoms can be fairly sexy, though.  I thought it was really sexy how Suzy just jumped up and left as I was in the post orgasmic glow.  Normally, there's some ninja like moves to contend with the mess of my semen.  Reversal of what's expected.

The point that I'm trying to make here is to not be monolithic about sex.  It's always good.  And yes, I really do enjoy sex earlier in the day.  It would have been nice to have a long drawn out "session" but this quickie was just lovely.  It makes me wonder about other "reversals" we could try...

Saturday, June 17, 2017

Fantasies and communication

A lot of "real life" has happened in the past few weeks that I don't care to discuss.  Suffice it to say that we have not been playing as much lately.  We had a mutual agreement the other night that she was open to sex.  I developed a fairly detailed fantasy of how that would play out, with strong CFNM emphasis.  But I didn't tell her about it.  So that's the reason for this post.  I really don't have a reason why I didn't tell her about it, I guess I just thought it would happen.  A purpose of this blog is for me to communicate sexual thoughts to her, and she can take it or leave it.  So here goes.

Earlier in the day, I had given my chest and pubes a good shaving/trimming.  I fantasized that she came out of the bathroom in something like yoga pants and a jog bra and met me fully naked.  She'd run her hands over my chest, commenting on its smoothness and playfully pinch my nipples as a teaser of things to come.  She'd then eye my vulnerable body, asking me to turn around to see my ass, and then make a comment about the ~10 pounds that I have lost recently.  I will be hard and she will play with my erection and squeeze my balls.  Then, we'll kiss and I'll turn around and she will stroke my cock from behind, pressing her breasts against my back.  I don't think she's ever stroked me in this position before, but I am imagining it will be a new type of CFNM sensation.  She'll make little comment here and there about what she has liked about other men's bodies, teasing me about our cuckolding experiences.

After being "on display" for her, I'd like to grope her a bit, squeezing her ass and then slip her yoga pants off, then proceed to foreplay for her.  I would like her to tell me, "it's time for me to come now", and then pleasure her in any way she likes: oral, fingering/vibrator.  After her climax, I will give her a post-orgasm caress and then I will put her yoga pants back on and it will be time to pleasure me.  I would like to be teased and have ball and nipple torture done on me when I'm close to ejaculation.  She will talk to me about her prior and/or potential cuckolding experiences, telling me what she enjoys about being a hot wife and saying things like, "do you like it how your wife has sex with other men" (of course I do!) - things like that.  When she is done toying with my horniness, she will figure out a way for me to orgasm (inside her pussy, handjob) and then we will collapse and fall asleep.

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As it turns out, my wife is actively talking to other potential playmates.  A younger and an older guy seem to top the list, but they both have some pluses and minuses that only she can figure out if they are worthy to have their cocks sucked by her, and to become "Friend #7".  Wow, this sorta sounds like a reality show now!  Anyway, I am definitely in the mood to get some kink on.  It's been a long time since I've had my balls slapped and my nipples pinched.  And frankly, if she never cuckolds me again, it would be fine, she can always tease me about the "double standard" and how she has had quite a bit more sex partners, and how she appreciates having sexual freedom to explore other men.