26: Something that will never fail to get you horny?
- Wife-initiated sex is the best sex, and her attacking me will always make me horny. Or, if she tells me what she wants (e.g., I need your dick inside me/an orgasm/etc. now). She looks great in jeans, she has certain tops that show off her cleavage very well. I love it when she wears sports bras and yoga pants and thongs.
27: Early morning sex or late night sex?
- Late night; Suzy will not allow sex in the morning :-(
28: Favorite body part on the opposite sex?
- In nonsexual situations, it's ass. When we were dating, I literally recognized Suzy across the quad by her ass (not making this up!). Her ass is still as thrilling to me now as it was then, but she doesn't seem to get that aroused with ass grabbing/play.
- During sex, it's probably her breasts. Not only do they look awesome, but she reacts to them in ways that turn me on a lot during foreplay. The outsides of her breasts are very sensitive. After a while when she's more aroused, I will suck her nipples and there are times when she makes nonverbal communication that, "OK, mister, foreplay is over, give me and orgasm NOW". There seems to be a direct connection between her nipples and her clit, which is amazing.
29: Favorite body part on the same sex?
- Ugh, hard question for me to answer (LOL). I'm not really sure how I can have a "favorite" part, but I'll answer that I think my chest is probably my best asset body-wise, so I'll go with that?
30: Something that you have hidden in your room that you don’t want anyone to find:
- Our sex toys for sure. Kinky underwear we might have.
31: Weirdest sexual act some has performed [or tried to perform] on/with you:
When we were dating, my future wife starting playing (tickling?) my ass and I could not believe how enjoyable it was. Just gently "feathering" that area seemed like lightning rods of pleasure to me. I thought that "weird" at the time, but I loved it. It turns out that area has lots and lots of nerve endings. I'm usually very careful about making sure I'm clean down there just in case she plays with it. And, paradoxically, when she does this I typically lose my erection.
Honestly, that doesn't seem that weird now, so I'll answer it with a bonus that we were watching the porn version of 50 shades of grey and somehow I ended up with my ass up, my aneros prostate massager in my ass, and she was "fucking" me with it while playing with my balls. I think she was still watching the movie (and she had already orgasmed herself) and I came in that position eventually. That was pretty unusual, I would say, and would love to try that again!
32: Have you ever tasted yourself? [If no, would you?] [If yes, what did you think?]
No, it seems kinky/naughty to do pre-ejaculation, but post-ejaculation it seems completely disgusting. And Suzy does not seem that into this in any case.
33: Is it ever okay to not use a condom:
Sure, if all parties know what they are getting into and can commit to being "safe" during that time.
34: A food that you would like to use during a sexual experience:
Human sundae for me, please. Whipped cream, chocolate, cherries, chopped nuts, oh my! And just thought it would be extremely tantalizing for her to eat a banana "down there", side by side with my cock. I think women eating bananas is very sexy, for obvious reasons.
35: Worst possible time to get horny:
When kids/family don't allow for the resolution - or expression - of that horniness!
36: Do you like it when your sexual partner moans?
[For Suzy: "fapping" is slang for masturbation]. Nobody talks about fight club.
38: Best sexual complement you ever got:
After she climaxes, when she says, "OMG that was amazing/I can't believe how intense that was/Why do I turn that down so often"; basically things along the lines that she had a pleasurable experience. I think my wife got a text from her playmate along the lines of "tell your husband I appreciate his willingness to share you" - does that count?
39: Favorite foreplay activities:
I enjoy foreplay to be as adult "play time". I really enjoy any activity we can do before we get to the bed. Suzy is always in a big rush to get to the bed as soon as possible. I like to make out with her standing up, naked, so she can see and feel my lust for her. I guess I'm super visual, I like to see her in a sexy outfit and that excitement just builds and builds. I love to play with her body, hitting her deep erotic areas, her breasts, her shoulders, her neck, her ears, her armpits (not really sure why, but she gives really awesome reactions when I play with her armpits) and later her nipples and inner thighs/pussy. It's like a checkoff list, has to be in a certain order. By that time, she almost demands that she come. Which is nice.
Foreplay for me, I like her touching my chest/nipples, and teasing me a lot with my cock/balls/perineum. When we were dating she used to sort of pretend that she didn't want to touch my cock while she was stimulating all around it, but would slightly touch it and say, "ooops". She doesn't do that quite as much anymore, but I do enjoy that. It was maddening/frustrating, but in a good way.
40: What do you wear to bed?
I wear fairly over-sized gym shorts. Super comfortable, easy to take off.
13: Is there anybody right now you’d like to have sex with?
- Yes, my wife Suzy!
14: Do you prefer giving or receiving oral sex? - Oral sex in our bedroom is uni-directional, me going down on Suzy; and I love it, especially when she comes. Her scent is a little too strong for me just before and just after her flow, but otherwise it's just lovely. Of all the sex acts we perform, for me it feels like I am truly "making love" to her. Especially love it when she is nicely shaved down there, it's such a turn on. I wish it was more consistent to get her to climax, but perhaps I need more practice...
15: Most embarrassing thing that’s ever happened to you during sex?
- I have farted exactly during my ejaculation; but I think more embarrassing than that was for me to ejaculate (twice) while performing cunnilingus on Suzy. The first time sort of ruined things for both, but the second time I was able to man up and finish the job on her. Her moaning was just so damn sexy...
16: A song you’d listen to during hard/rough/kinky sex?
- Just about anything by Led Zeppelin or AC/DC sounds about right.
17: A song you’d listen to during soft/slow/passionate sex?
- Foolish Game by Chris Isaac, over and over, I suppose.
18: Are you into dressing up for sex?
- I have a strong CFNM fetish, but I do enjoy wearing thongs; the feel of the fabric up my ass is erotic and I think I have a conditioned response or something, that whenever I wear thongs, something sexy will happen. I do love it when Suzy wears sexy outfits, I like "unwrapping" her as, sort of on a body part by body part basis.
19: Would you prefer sex in the bath or sex in the shower?
- Shower, but Suzy generally refuses. She is one of those women that is "always cold" and does not want to share the warm water. At least that's what I think anyway.
20: If you could have sex with anyone right now, who would it be?
- Suzy. Now.
21: Have you ever had a threesome? If not, would you?
- No, and I want it desperately. A MFM that is. If you haven't figured out from my blog, satisfying my wife is the ultimate sexual high for me. The thought of her being pampered by four horny hands, two mouths, and two hard cocks is super erotic. I only worry about the Inigo Montoya syndrome. That is, I've been wanting that for so long, maybe when it finally happens something could go wrong (e.g., I can't perform, he can't perform, one of us comes too soon, we don't clique somehow, etc.)
22: Do you/would you use sex toys?
- Very frequently. Please realize that most times we are intimate, it's very late at night and I'm not ready to perform acrobatic sex. So perhaps my oral sex game isn't what it should be, or whatnot. So, I frequently use toys on her, and she does have fantastic orgasms. I normally finger her pussy while the vibe is on her clit, but frankly we have a lot of sex toys that we don't use, and I'd like to alternate more. Especially with some insertables. Suzy doesn't seem to like it as much, but when I inserted a big dildo in her pussy, it was super exciting to me to watch her labia stretching to accept the phallus. I loved that. I will note that most of our sex toys meant to be applied to me are mainly there to reduce or slow down my sexual pleasure, but all of them are to enhance hers.
23: Have you ever sent someone a dirty text/picture?
- Yes. We have done two erotic photo shoots of her that were intended for her lovers or potential lovers for her dating website. Very, very sexy experience being the photographer and trying to compose a photo of your wife that would arouse another male. I got one with my hard cock in it, but I noticed she didn't send that one, LOL. And yes, sexting is an important part of our pre-sex foreplay.
24: Would you have sex with your best friend?
- Yes, Suzy is my best friend.
25: Is there anything you do after sex? (for example, smoke, eat, drink)
- When I was younger, I'd fall asleep immediately, but nowadays I get amped up. It depends if I come or not. If I don't come, I usually help her get dressed, then take a sleeping pill and cuddle with my hardon pressed against her ass. If I do come, I usually bask in paralytic post-orgasmic bliss for a few minutes, then clean up, then take a sleeping pill, then cuddle with my soft cock against her ass.
- I was 17 and it was with a girl I knew from elementary school and we ended up dating in HS. It was not a good experience, probably for either of us. I remember feeling very awkward about rolling the condom on and feeling really guilty after I had ejaculated. She was not a virgin, she had been with an older man, which now that I think about it, seems like it would be illegal. I think we did it a few times. She had a unique last name (e.g., easily google-able), I had a rough idea of what she wanted to do career-wise, but I still could not find her on google/stalk search.
2: Rough sex or soft sex?
- Rough. I think sex is inherently rough (I'm usually on top of her in missionary and I outweigh her by ~40 pounds - that always struck me as maybe a bit uncomfortable for her?) and messy. My arousal and orgasm are much more intense when she pinches my nipples, slaps/squeezes my balls, spanks me, etc. Love that.
3: Do you have any unusual kinks/fetishes?
- My blog is mostly about my kinks and I'm forever grateful to my wife for exploring them. We've done a lot of pretty kinky stuff together, but I have a pretty vivid imagination. Top ones that we have done are cuckolding, CFNM, male orgasm denial, and cock and ball torture. Definitely would like to watch her get fucked and be watched (us fucking, a MFM threesome, or her dominating me).
4: Weirdest place you’ve had sex?
- In the community jacuzzi at the apartment building I stayed in my senior year of college. I entered her but I don't believe I came. The thrill of being caught was exciting. Also did it in a van on a side street in a very fancy neighborhood before a very fancy dinner; I came that time, but we used a condom. Can't have a mess in the family van!
5: Favourite sex position?
- Hands down, wife on top. Not that I'm lazy, it's just so erotic to watch her use me for her sexual pleasure, focusing on her own orgasm and placing her hands on my chest to get leverage. My love language is "physical touch" and I just love feeling her body on top of mine; have I mentioned I love it when she touches my chest? Makes me feel strong and manly I guess. I have a lot more stamina in this position, as well. I think I've only come a few times in this position, and one time it was when she first started pinching my nipples, so I was super turned on.
6: Do you like to be dominant or submissive?
- Haha, pretty obvious I like to be submissive. I do have a dominant fantasy of tying her up and "forcing" her to have many, many orgasms.
7: Have you ever had any one night stands?
8: Sex on the bed, couch or the floor?
- Mainly the bed, but sometimes we've done it on the floor and in our closet to muffle the sound when we have company over.
9: Have you ever had sex in a public place?
- Yes, see number 4 above. In addition, the day she became a hotwife (which was done in her vehicle) we did it in her vehicle as well. We were like horny teenagers and couldn't wait for marital reclaim sex. Suzy seemed much more comfortable with this than me, frankly.
10: Have you ever been caught masturbating?
- Not that I can remember...nobody talks about fight club!
11: What does your favourite sexy underwear look like?
- I like it when she wears matching bra and thongs, and it's fun when she wears panties that have a message on them that informs what will or won't happen, (e.g., "Access Denied", "Lucky").
12: How often do you have sex?
- Not much lately, but I keep good track of our orgasms on this page. Long term average is Suzy comes about 6 times per month, I come about 3 times per month.