Saturday, November 19, 2016

Suzy's Sugar Walls - Unbridled Female Sexual Pleasure

I will continue my thoughts about marital communication later.  Lots happening for the upcoming holiday.  Suzy's period started last Wednesday and she assertively told me that I would not have an orgasm until her new "friend" had intercourse with her.  So, that meant two criteria were at play: she had to finish her period and then she and her friend had to have a time that worked for their schedules.  Then, I could have an orgasm.  Of course, it was understood that the same restriction did not apply to her.  During our pillow talk, I asked her how many orgasms she thought she might have until I could come, and she said something like 6 or 7.

As of this writing, she's had (at least) five orgasms, and I've had FOUR tease and denial sessions.  Suzy woke me up one night and played with my cock and balls - basically teased me silly.  I had taken a sleeping pill and was simultaneously in deep, deep subspace and partially asleep.  I understand the gentlemen thing to do given our "situation" was to take care with an orgasm after she determined I was sufficiently teased.  But unfortunately, I passed out.  Husband Fail.

Last night we had a fancier than normal datenight and we talked about our cuckold relationship discretely but honestly and openly.  She lovingly told me what she had in mind for her upcoming meetings with her lover and checking in to make sure I was still OK with things.  More on that in another post.  Anyway, I am super horny for that hotwife and can't wait to see what happens.  We ended up going to bed relatively early and I was able to pleasure her before bed.  What a hot experience!  Here goes:

I asked her to come to bed without her panties and she said, no, you have to work for it.  Hot.  Have I mentioned how sexy her confidence is?  She is becoming more and more sexually confident by the day, which I am loving.  So, I had to give her nice foreplay, sucking her tits, kissing deeply, then taking her PJs and panties off.  She loved feeling my erection and my desire for her.  She asked that I be naked.  I fingered her with the Hitachi on her clit.  She did not want me inside her, wanting to be "fresh" for her lover.  I fingered that special G-spot and then during her orgasm - as I've been doing with my cock when it's wanted inside her - I stopped the vaginal thrusting/massaging and just let her vaginal wall contract against my finger.  Words can't describe how sexy that is to me.  Any longtime reader will get how much I love her orgasms, but the involuntary orgasm spasm of her womanhood is just the sexiest thing ever.  I suspect I can sometimes feel it with my cock, but much more so with my finger.  And I don't think she always does this, seems like the more turned on she is the more likely it is to happen.  Who knows, maybe she will "squirt" someday!

I dressed her after that, and she teased me - me fully nude and her fully clothed, just like she had done before.  Intense pleasure for me, but no sexual release.  I love my hotwife!

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To say my balls are blue is an understatement.  My last orgasm was Nov 6, so I have a two week+ load building up for her as soon as she has her second playdate with her older friend.

Sunday, November 13, 2016

Marital Communication, Part 1

After 20+ years of marriage, I can honestly say that we have the very best communication that we've ever had.  But it hasn't always been that way, and there are times when I think I am the one that is having difficulty communicating.

Let me back this up.  I have always been an experimental type.  I'm the kind of person that gets annoyed that I only have three routes to go to work.  I like trying new things, new foods, new just about everything.  I rarely follow recipes (which means I don't bake!).

Even if you don't like something new, try it again, just to be sure you don't like it.  I was driving to work and I had a sip of my coffee and it tasted terribly soapy.  It was awful.  But I tasted it again, to prove to myself that it was in fact soap.  And probably a third or fourth time.  I convinced myself that the mug had not been fully rinsed.

I've always thought of myself as sexually "kinky".  When we were married, one of Suzy's friends got us a restraint set, intended as a joke - a gag gift.  I of course wanted to use that restraint with my bride.  For many years, we didn't do a lot of kinky stuff.  Suzy wasn't comfortable with it, and there are some things that she's still not comfortable with.

The most common sexual advice I've seen is to communicate your desires to your partner.  As I book I'm reading states, "love makes requests, not demands": I like it when you xzy... I like to do abc to you.  The general idea being that a partner may not know what you like and generally speaking will want to please the one they love but may not know how to.  Does that make sense?  So, I've been pretty vocal about that.  Just recently, I told Suzy that I missed being dominated by her.  Then she told me something that hit me like a ton of bricks: why don't you tell me what you want to do to me?  That gets her excited.  So, I'm going to work that level of communication into our bag of tricks.

We had a date-night of sorts last night, after a couple of days apart due to business travel.  It was as if we couldn't talk to each other fast enough, we wanted to catch up.  But it felt like love.  And I did miss her terribly, it's hard to communicate in a different time zone.

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Alas, we got to bed fairly early last night "to cuddle".  I was so horny.  I told her that I wanted to masturbate on my trip, and she seemed pleased that I didn't.  It turns out, she masturbated twice, which made me very excited.  Suzy is on her period.  She can orgasm quite nicely, but it requires a lot of pressure with the Hitachi.  So, I put the vibe in its proper place, and sandwiched it with our bodies, being careful not to have any stimulation on my own genitals.  She loved the pressure, and her clit was very well satisfied.  I took my shorts off and she stroked me, played with my chest, and balls, and she fell asleep with her hands on my genitals.  I felt loved.

Wednesday, November 9, 2016

Playdate with Photos; Confident Hotwife

Sunday was a hot, intense experience for me.  Suzy had sex with her first "older" guy after he had flaked on her earlier in the week.  I locked myself in chastity Saturday night.

She was still feeling the sting of rejection from "don" the guy who fucked her and never returned calls and texts.  I told her to forget don, there's something wrong with him, not her.  It is surprising to me that he could make her feel so down on herself.  I told her that hotwifing is intended to build up her self esteem, not bring it down.

Prior to her date, Suzy did not exactly dress up due to child reasons (would have freaked out seeing mom in a fuck me dress).  I think we both like the idea of me helping her get dressed for her dates.  She did ask if she she wear the anklet (hell yes!) and she later said that he liked it, it was a good call to wear it.  I helped her pick out panties that matched her bra.  She told me that her lover liked lipstick and heels.  I took my pants down so she could see my locked state, with my head busting out of the slit very obviously.  I was trying to get hard as best as I could.  She really does like to tease me that "you can't get hard in that thing", "no erections for you", things like that.  Most of the day, my hands were visibly shaking.  She had my chastity key, which she usually carries safety-pinned to her bra, instead attached to her "bag of tricks" (which contains her condoms, and an assortment of lovers-only sex toys). I am certain that he knew I was locked up.

She left.  I got a text from her that she was at his condo.  She was a bit nervous.  I watched football and checked some hotwife forums.  I noticed a good bit of pre-come oozing throughout the date.  I was sort of expecting to get the photos in real time.  But I guess when you think about it, it would be distracting to stop sex for that.  So, she texted me that she was done and would be coming home soon.  Of course, I asked a ton of questions.  She didn't answer a lot of them, but then said "photos to follow".  I got three photos:

  • One of both their asses and his balls.  it's obvious he is inside her.  Hawt.
  • One of her cowgirl style.  It's a hot photo.  It really shows off her big tits well.  But it's not a selfie, it's obvious her "friend" took it.
  • One of her sucking his dick, wedding rings CLEARLY showing, grabbing his cock while she sucks it.  Out of this world hot photo.  Again, it's obvious her playmate took it.
  • I'll ask if I can post them.


She started home, telling me she was hungry, so I tried to time some dinner when she got home.  I went to the car and we talked about it.  He had offered to take her to the hot tub (presumably as he was in his refractory period for the next round), but she didn't do that.  He came twice, she didn't come.  She said she got close when she rode cowgirl.  He did oral on her as well.  She said his first orgasm was intense, second one not as much.  Not sure if he used his own condoms or the ones I gave her.  She was pretty happy how it went, although obviously we would have preferred her to orgasm.

I kissed her in her car, then we went to eat dinner.  Throughout the night, she made some comments that only I could get, which was pretty funny.  She got ready for bed at a reasonable time, and she unlocked the lock, I took the device off and went downstairs to clean my penis as best I could in the sink.  She came out in lingerie, which I specifically asked for, but frankly she very seldom wears.  She talked a little bit more about her encounter, which was hot, and she asked that I get a condom.  Anyway, as we're doing foreplay "Louis" texts her and asked her to come over and play (it's 9 - 10 o'clock at this point).  I said, "ill drive you".  She was too tired.  In fact, she kept telling me that her legs were sore, which was really giving me some nice cuckold feelings - that the other male wore her out and it wasn't a given that I was going to lay my own wife.  For her playdate with "Nick", she straight up told me, "i'm too sore for any more sex".  Anyway, it's kinda hot to hear your wife imply that she might not have enough left in the tank to fuck you.  As an aside, she complained about her soreness the next morning as well.

So, I put the condom on, began penetrating her.  She has a certain style of fucking she *demands* of me.  Really slow, deep strokes, and then she tells me when to stop thrusting when the Hitachi wand has put her clit over the edge.  I can usually figure out when she's coming, and I just hold my cock as far inside her as I can during her orgasm.  This time, she told me to stop.  That was really hot.  I really, REALLY like it when she tells me what to do during sex.

After her intense orgasm, I knew I wouldn't last that much longer.  But the condoms do help me with that stamina, frankly.  Anyway, she started talking really dirty, I asked her to call me a cuckold and she did, and it was all too much, so I came.  My wife had caused three male orgasms that day.  Unfortunately, she only came once.  Still super hot.

The next morning, she said she felt super confident.  That's a big benefit of hotwifing.  It appears she will play with him again.  It is possible that "Louis" will also play with her again.  As far as i know these men are in her little black book of friends with benefits.  Then, she teased me and said something to the effect that, "he came up with some ideas for what we can do next time to include you in our play".  WHAT?  He's colluding with her on her hotwife activities?  I like the guy already.  I asked her what they had in mind, and she said, "that's on a need to know basis".  She won't tell me.

Anyway, he does live an hour away, but him hosting is nice.  Maybe old guys do rule?  We'll see what the next move is!