I've been traveling a lot for work. Before that started, Suzy teased me that she would deal with my absence by playing with a lover. I was fairly excited about that idea, but frankly I got so focused on my job that I didn't even think about it much. I didn't blog at all.
When I came home, we had some passionate sex. Some new sex. It's amazing to me that we can find new ways to enjoy sex after being married for as long as we have.
So here's what we did.
When we have intercourse, Suzy typically holds the Hitachi on her clit while I penetrate her. She always tells me to go slowly. I get super turned on that she tells me how to fuck her. Anyway, I will slowly penetrate her and frankly with my cock inside her and the Hitachi on her clit, she comes in no time. It's pretty awesome.
So a few weeks ago, she told me (yes, it was phrased like I had no choice in the matter, which excited me a lot!) that she wanted slow penetrations (as before) but during her orgasm, she wanted me to be fully inside her pussy but to stop the "in and out". So during her climax, my erection is no longer thrusting, but filling her pussy.
She L O V E D this. It's our new thing. The first time we tried it, she came really hard and said "wow, we've got to try that again!" I told her I was game. So we have done that a few times, and she's had great orgasms every time.
I am not sure what made her think of this, and why it might enhance her orgasm. No clue. But WE like it and it is a lot of fun. I have no problem figuring out when to stop thrusting. I hold my cock still during her climax, I enjoy her orgasm and let her calm down a bit, and then I go back to penetrating her until I come.
I read a fair amount of sex articles and I've never heard of this technique being recommended. I don't even know what to call it. I appreciate any suggestions, and would love to hear about any readers' experimentation with this.