I'm not sure if I've blogged about this, but one thing I've been struggling with is the dominance/submissive thing in the bedroom. Suzy has given me feedback that she likes her male partner to take charge, to be more assertive. I typically ask her if she wants me to do a particular sex act. I'll say something like, "Suzy, I'd like to go down on you, is that OK?". The feedback she's giving me is that she would really just prefer that I go for it. So, I've been trying to do that more.
Except when she resists. Ugh. As an example for this week, I wanted her to come, and using the Hitachi is the only option at the moment. She resisted this pretty hard a couple of nights this week. Last night I was determined and she paradoxically refused again. But I kept at it, I was persistent. I needed her to come. She was very tired but gave up resisting me and allowed me to hold the Hitachi against her beautiful pussy. She came hard. We both loved it. But what was particularly exciting to me was how sensitive her body was post-orgasm. I was touching her all over and she gave me the best reactions to the stimulation. I played with her breasts, armpits, back, side, neck, shoulder. She was writhing in pleasure and then fell into a peaceful sleep.
This morning, she told me matter of factly that it was one of the most intense orgasms she's had.
* * * * *A few days before, I had been getting a pain in my scrotum. It festered for a bit, so I asked her to take a look at it (it's difficult for me to see what's going on down there, so I needed an expert opinion). She even suggested that we could "play doctor". I've wanted to role play more, so I thought this would be fairly exciting. She was tired, so it wasn't a full-blown session. But she did come out and examine my balls. I was fully naked and she was in her typical PJ's. I held my cell phone light in that area, and she carefully examined me. Such a turnon!! This was one of the sessions that she refused an orgasm, but she did play with me, and I was in deep sub-space arranging my nude body so that she could stimulate my various erogenous parts. No orgasm, but a hot experience. I'd really like to explore more role playing, especially of the CFNM variety. Perhaps a more drawn out version of doctor/patient in which she examines and discusses my sex life, asks me how often I ejaculate and how often my wife orgasms, basically getting very personal, but as it turns out, she is a doctor that only sees male patients and encourages sex for the wife's pleasure. We shall see!
Last week, I had done a hasty shave job and I think it was a razor burn. I don't usually take a lot of time on my scrotum hair, but I did use a razor in the shower and I must have been a little too eager. What surprised me was that it was a few days after that I felt the pain. things are getting better now.