Wednesday, April 27, 2016

My "unicorn" hotwife

Things have slowed down a bit, due to some stressful family issues, Suzy having her period, and my libido being unexpectedly low (have I lost my "mojo"?).  We haven't been having a lot of sex lately, I think I got a handjob in last week, and used the vibe on her.

In spite of mother nature's "obstacle", Suzy continues to arrange for potential playmates when the time comes.  She had a meet and greet with a younger guy last week.  From what I can tell, it went quite well.  They did not do anything sexual, it was a ~2 hour coffee and I think he kissed her and hugged her.  She gave me the lowdown after the "date" and I was pretty excited (occasionally staring at her D-cups with a shirt specifically picked to highlight the "twin peaks".  Suzy basically said that she could see this guy being a regular playmate.  As most who have entered the hotwifing lifestyle will attest, good communication between the married couple is super important.  And when your hotwife looks you in the eye, unembarrassed, and says, "I'd like to have sex with him", you know you have a good amount of communication.

I am having a tough time keeping her potential playmates straight.  I don't really want to use their real names - it's possible she will let at least one of them on our blogging secret at some point.

Playmate #1 is totally out of the picture.

Playmate #2, "Mike" is still in the picture.  He is a super flake and she has had sex with him a couple of times.  She is open to meeting up with him again.  I kinda get excited at the thought that she needs more "practice" having sex with him.... sorta like she can't quite tell if she likes it so she needs to try again.

Playmate #3 (that is to say, her third extramarital sex partner) didn't contact her for a while after their carnal encounter, then said he wants to play again.  I am not sure how those discussions have gone.  She has said that he is the most likely "friend" to play in front of me (frankly, I don't know exactly what that means at this point - watching/tag-teaming/a full threesome with penetration from one male and her giving a blojob to the other... yes, please!), so naturally I am rooting for him.  Suzy has asked me a few times if I'd "really" be ok watching another male copulate with her.  I really do think I am!

She has a couple of other guys that she corresponds with by email/text/phone.  I believe she has one guy that likes her voice, and jacks off when (or after?) they talk.... phone sex!  At any rate, I don't have a solid understanding of where things stand with the men she hasn't yet met in person.

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What I do know is that even though my sex drive has been down, the thought of her playing hit me today, and I am super excited about it (yes, I have pre-come in my underwear right now).  Suzy has confided to me that things were a little overwhelming with her on the number of men that try to connect with her on her dating site.  She is a bit of a "unicorn" on her dating site, in the sense that a single male can approach her without producing a female partner to "share" with me.  Thus, the many inquiries from single men.  For now, it seems that she is going to stick it out with these 4-6 men for the time being.  Happy hotwifing, darling!

Friday, April 8, 2016

When hubby can't wait for seconds... anticipated "reclaim" sex of a hotwife

As you can see by my hotwife's latest blog post, we are going more and more into the cuckolding lifestyle.  Suzy has so far had 7 playdates with two different younger males.  Most of them were planned; one of the surprising issues we are having is the flakiness of the playmates.  You'd think that a horny guy would go more out of his way to remove obstacles such as girlfriends or work/family schedules to have no strings attached sex with a sexy MILF!

For me as the cuckold, being denied for the dates makes it more intense.  She had one date (with lover #1) that was somewhat spontaneous and we had actually had sex the night before (I'll never forget that orgasm, because I entered her missionary but her legs were completely closed - new sensation for me!)  While it turned me on a lot that she was playing, my balls were pretty drained and I was no longer horny.  I guess what I'm trying to say is that from my perspective, being denied (and therefore super horny) leading up to a playdate is pretty intense.  Our first cuckolding experience involved intense tease and denial and I was practically begging for her to get pounded by strange dick.

And that is our current situation.  Suzy has told me that I cannot have sex with her until she has sex with another male.  She said something to the effect that, "you get seconds, husband".  We had a sexy play time last night - she came out fully nude and fed me her nipples as part of foreplay.  She came nicely from fingering/Hitachi and I played around with her a bit, us both nude.  I was erect, and I asked her if I could enter her, and she assertively said, "no, not until I've had another lover".  What struck me is how confident and assured she was in her decision.

So, I'm practically craving her to get laid, so that I can "reclaim" her with some marital sex.  She has a "meet and greet" tonight, and therefore there is a possibility that she will click with him and possibly have intercourse.  Of course, I am rooting for both of them to have a good time.  Cuckolding is a team sport.

She has a tentative date this weekend with lover #2 ("Mike").  But he has been very flaky, and I'm not holding my breath (or should I say "cock"?  Not sure here).  So if it doesn't work out tonight, it may be a while longer until I enjoy Suzy's warm tight pussy.  She needn't worry, though, because I am more than willing to take care of her physical needs until that time comes.

So, wish us luck tonight!  She does have her sexy top, sexy thongs, and toy bag with condoms packed and ready to go.

Love you Suzy!


Sunday, April 3, 2016

Quarterly Sex Report

We've had some fun times lately, which I've captured in our orgasm tracker page at a high level.  I won't go into details at the moment, but it's fair to say that our sex life has been very enjoyable lately.

At the beginning of the year, I had tallied up our orgasm data from years past and proposed to Suzy that we have a 2016 New Year's resolution of 100 female orgasms.  It seemed like she brushed me off at the time, but it's come up here and there as the year progressed.  We've had a bit of fun with it via texting.  Since the first quarter is officially over, I thought it would be fun to tally it up and extrapolate to see if we are on target for our goal.

She has had 29 orgasms, putting her on pace for 116, well above the goal.  That's awesome!  I'm hoping that we can maintain this pace and find new and interesting ways for her to climax.

As a side note, I have come 12 times and she has been directly responsible for 4 extramarital male orgasms.

Which leads me to: where are we going, sexually from here?  Will we keep pace to accomplish the goal of 100 female orgasms?  Will cuckolding remain a part of our sex lives (she actually had sexted me that the goal of 100 is more easily obtained with additional sex partners... Hot!)?  What fantasies will we explore?  What is the goal for my orgasms?