I've blogged about this before, but it is so HOTT when I am denied and I dress her. I have a thing for clothes (Halloween's coming up, hon, can we play with sexy costumes?). It is so sexy when she moves her hips to help get her panties and PJ bottoms on. Such a sexy site to watch. But I suppose the reason it turns me on so much, when I am super craving to be inside her, is that it is a clear acknowledgment that we are done with sex play and that I am going to bed horny. It just really hits my submissive buttons.
This morning, I broached the subject about last night's session and she seemed pleased that I was still very horny, and she clearly said that she was "sexually satisfied" from her orgasm last night. As she was leaving, she said, "Husband, I have a few errands for you". It turned me on the way she said that, it was not mean but laid out clear expectations. I will get to it shortly, but I have already started the laundry, emptied the dishwasher (which I loaded the day before) and will probably do some more clean up. I got her a Starbucks this morning. It's the Oxytocin from my denial, I suppose. Horny energy that makes me want to serve her.
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Prior to that, Suzy mentioned that she had a new playmate in mind. I really enjoyed the openness of the conversation. She told me that she was surprised herself that she is interested in him, since he is the same age as us (we both are turned on by her playing with a younger stud). She is actively trying to find a time to meet with him, and what really surprised me was how direct she was that she is going to meet him by herself. I had thought that she wanted me to be there (for protection? for evidence that she is not cheating behind my back? not sure really why I thought this, but I did). Again, assertiveness. My wife's confidence seems to really be accelerating. A confident, sexy wife makes for a very happy husband. I love you sweetie!! I realize this is a bit unorthodox, but it is working for us, and I am really enjoying the journey.