My loving, caring wife of ~20 years had sexual intercourse with someone beside her husband, me. This has been a fantasy of mine for several years now, and it did in fact happen.
Well, it has actually happened twice.
There are a lot of details, but I will try to summarize:
Her "friend" is about 10 years younger than us. He pursued her through a work interaction, and they were texting each other quite a bit, often at late hours. Suzy has some affection for him, but as far as I can tell, she doesn't necessarily think of him as "hot". (yes, I asked about cock size comparison, and she said we are roughly the same). He apparently prefers blowjobs (who doesn't?) but Suzy is not that big on blowies. He used a condom (this is one of our agreed upon rules, since she is not on birth control) and claims that he has reduced sensitivity to the point that he did not, on either occasion, climax. This was the big disappointment from Suzy's perspective. So, I guess you can say, he has good stamina.
Suzy views this relationship as a friend with benefits sort of thing. She claims not to have "feelings" for him (this is another agreed upon rule). She has told me that she feels more comfortable playing with someone she knows as opposed to a random guy from Craigslist.
Suzy approached him with the threesome idea (which is more of what I'd like to try) but he was not cool with that. He does not know that I know about and approve of this.
They did it in her vehicle the first time, and his the second time.
The lead in
We've tried Craigslist hookups before, but they did not work out. Suzy is very aware of my fantasy, had some interest in this guy, and she asked me if I was really OK with it over dinner. I gave her the green light.
Suzy went out of her way to say she would NOT have intercourse on their first "playdate". I insisted she take a condom in her purse. He requested the she not wear panties. She wore a very sexy outfit (in fact, it was one that she bought but thought it was too sexy for general public wearing). She looked hot. She had teased and denied me mercilessly leading up to the date. I was about as horny as I had ever been.
Well, Suzy did in fact have intercourse. It sounded like he "attacked" her immediately. She told me a lot of the details - while we have had sex in this particular vehicle, I don't think it's really all that easy. They tried a couple of positions and he was frustrated that she didn't come. He fingered her, and she came.
Suzy had refused to give me the details of the encounter until I got home from work. No detailed texts. Just more teasing, and I was about to burst spontaneously. We basically went to a Starbucks, parked and chatted for a long time. I was surprised that she did it, because she kept saying she wouldn't. In a bit of irony, it was too early for us to have sex at home, so we parked her vehicle and had sex in her car. We screwed like rabbits through the rest of the week. The most sex I think we have ever had.
Things have cooled down a bit since. We had a family vacation, and she got her monthly visitor. I don't think either of us regret fulfilling this fantasy.