I get her on this. This is actually how we stumbled onto male orgasm denial in the first place. Our bed can be loud, and she is very conservative around stuff like that. But I really had a craving to go down on her.
She would probably never admit it, but I could tell she was horny too. She was very open to foreplay, and enjoyed it when I sucked her nipple. There isn't a lot of noise during cunnilingus, except for her orgasm itself, which she can stifle when she wants.
So, I took her bottoms off, and went down on her. It was great. I really do feel that "dining at the Y" (my favorite euphemism for cunnilingus by the way) is the best way I can make love to her. I don't last that long during intercourse, even though we both enjoy that. But, I like being able to truly make love to her and I feel that I do that in a very loving, intimate way when I perform cunnilingus on her. She was a lot more verbal with moans during the time prior to engaging her clit. If I've learned anything about how to increase her to enjoyment of oral sex, it's Rule #1: DON'T GO STRAIGHT TO THE CLITORIS.
She climaxed. My "success rate" for orally bringing her to orgasm has improved a lot as a result of obeying Rule #1, in combination with Rule #2, MAINTAIN A CONSTANT PACE WITH YOUR TONGUE; my big mistake was that as she approaches her orgasm, I get excited and involuntarily speed up the pace. She does NOT like that!
Her orgasm was strangely muted. I guess she did not want anyone to know about the pleasure she experienced, LOL.
She apologized repeatedly for how much "work" it took, etc. I love it, though. My worst day eating her out is still better than my best day at work, lol. During the session, she subtly undulated her hips into my mouth, which was really erotic for me. I put her clothes back on, as she decided that there was no release for me, and we talked a bit about sex, and then we went to bed.
* * * * *Well, I skipped over an important part. So, I haven't come myself in about a week. She is going on a trip and will be gone another week. She told me I'd have to wait until she returns before I can orgasm. Then, she said that she wanted me to lock up in my chastity device, so that she knows that I will have "behaved myself". It's been a while since I've been locked, and it will be about a week in solitary for me.
Her acceptance of my kinks has really made me feel closer to her. I love this woman!