Saturday, November 24, 2012

Magic Mike, Full frontal nudity, and castration anxiety

If you recall, my wife was quite excited about watching the male stripper movie Magic Mike.  She couldn't wait to buy it and wanted to watch it again with me.  I am strangely turned on by my wife's exuberance at looking at nearly nude men lustfully.

We watched the show and generally understood that sex play was going to happen.  The night before, we played sexually and she orgasmed, but she denied my release.  Needless to say, I was very horny.  This was during the day, which was a REAL TREAT for me.  Many times when we play, we are both very tired from work and parenting activities, and I really long for "nooners" where we can be fully engaged in sex.

Suzy was still on her period, but she work her bra and some sexy Victoria's Secret leggings.  I was fully nude.  We watched the movie, first with me massaging her feet and then she massaged my cock.  I would caress her body regularly, but she kept a very keen focus on my dick and keeping it hard.  She signalled in some way that she was going to finish me off, and at that point, I wrapped my legs around her and revelled in my complete vulnerability and her sexual power over me. 
Suzy completely controlled my body.  My helplessness seemed to provide her sufficient entertainment.  I think I will visual her enthusiastic smile for some time to come.

She began to pull my scrotum very firmly while she was stroking my cock.  It felt like she was trying to rip my balls off.  I was taken aback by this, and starting to get a little nervous.  She had the biggest SMILE on her face, she was really enjoying this, and enjoying my reactions.  I really have no idea how far she was pulling my scrotum, but it did feel intense and resulted in a massive orgasm.  She spent a good bit of time playing with my sack post-orgasm, and continued pulling on it.

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All in all, a fun time was had.  I felt intensely submissive and dominated by her during the light of day, where we both focused on our sex play.  I probably had a continuous erection for an hour.  My orgasm was intense.  She did get me to another full blown erection, but parental duties forced us to stop.  I have a feeling she will be doing this again.


Sunday, November 18, 2012

Update: "anniversary sex plan" and male endurance training

I thought I'd give a brief update.  Our sex play has been more on the vanilla side than the kinky side lately.  I suppose that these sorts of things go in waves, and some life circumstances have pushed our sex life in that direction.  Also, it has been difficult for me to update my own blog and read others due to these circumstances.

Of course, that doesn't mean I don't fantasize about femdom sex.

A couple of things of interest have happened, one fun and exciting and the other embarrasing.

Anniversary Sex Plan

When we were fooling around, my wife seemed very intrigued about chronicling our sex life.  She mentioned my "orgasm tracker" page on the blog and thought that we should track our trysts more regularly.  Specifically, SHE said we should have sex more, and suggested we should play one time each month for every year we are married.  Awesome!  I joked that would make me more excited about our anniversary every year, as it is an extra day of getting laid.  Unfortunately, due to said life experiences, we haven't been able to put that into practice yet.  Suzy is on her period, so perhaps we can start this up in a few days.  Let's just say that the majority of days we would be having sex!

It seems that Suzy really enjoys orgasms.  I mean she REALLY enjoys orgasms.  When we first married, it seemed like she could take it or leave it.  Now, the focus is squarely on her cumming.

Male endurance training

She stated in no uncertain terms that she wants to get fucked hard and deep.  Because I have a tendency to come rather quickly, I can't do that for that long.  Historically, my endurance is really aided by having sex more often.  That is, if we haven't had sex in a week, I come very quickly.  If we had sex last night, I have much better endurance.  So, the "anniversary sex plan" is to my advantage in terms of staying power.

But recently, I was pounding and I came sooner than I wanted.  She really seemed disappointed and I felt like I needed to do something about it.

I read a bit about premature ejaculation.  My major take away is that this is something that we really should research and do together.  Perhaps we can do a google search together.

That's all fine, but my wife wants to get pounded hard and deep.  I must give her what she wants, sexually.

I put on an "endurance" condom that has a desensitizing agent on the inside (I bought them a while ago, but Suzy seems reluctant to use them).  Suzy wanted to be penetrated doggy style, so I slipped it on and went to town.  I thought my endurance was much better than would normally be expected.  There are two things going on here: the condom and the numbing agent.  Harry Haversacker (sp?) is a fan of using numbing agents, and he doesn't seem to have any ill effects.  I would like to explore this more fully.  Perhaps I can introduce a numbing agent to the head of my cock and then go to town and hopefully fuck her better.  I really want to try this, and I don't think there are really any cons to doing so.  If I over-desensitize, I wouldn't be able to come, but she would get what she really deserves.  If it doesn't quite do the trick, I would at least have better endurance and the longer time hard would be well worth it.  I think it's a win-win.