Sunday, July 8, 2012

Our Femdom goals: More female orgasms

We played again last night, and Suzy allowed a vibrator orgasm.  I wore my thong underwear, and she teased my cock and balls through the fabric - no direct skin contact.  She swatted my balls and hand spanked my ass.  She said that she wanted to spank me harder with implements at our next session.  Yay!
I love to be spanked.  She gave me a good swatting after her orgasm, while I massaged her feet.  She said she would want to use an implement for the next spanking session.  I can't wait!
Suzy read my latest posts and provided some feedback last night, after her orgasm.  We discussed the frequency of our sex play and we both agree that she should be climaxing more.  She set a target of five orgasms per week.  That's a significant jump - more than double our current pace.  I readily welcome this development!  She agreed to be more open with multiple orgasms.  From a practical perspective, it would be very difficult to consistently have 5 intimate times per week.  Life just gets in the way.  I think that with her acceptance of multiple big-O's, this is an achievable goal.

Being the submissive I am, I suggested that I be punished if we do not meet this goal.  She quickly said, "I already am punishing you, by not giving you release".  Wow.  I didn't realize this was her position on my denial.  That it was because she wasn't coming enough.

With regard to my own orgasms, she stated that she wanted to see my release frequency decline.  I like to come, and I am very horny.  I wish to come more often, but part of the appeal to femdom play is that it is not up to me, and I accept her decision as to when I will climax.  She also indicated that wanted me to be able to pound her when she wants sex, but wanted me to have endurance to hold off on ejaculating.  I have some ideas on that, that I will share in a future post.

She made it very clear that she enjoys my erections.  In spite of her pleasure being the focus of our sex play, and the rarity of my orgasms, my hard cock is a very important part of our sex play.  As she said this morning, "I appreciate you demonstrating your horniness to me".
I love doing this tie. So many possibilities!
Erections are an important part of our play.  She ultimately controls the cock, but she wants it hard.
I may have crossed the line into topping from the bottom.  I practically begged her to lock me up in my chastity belt.  I am so horny, and it appears that she wants me to be denied longer.  I enjoy the psychological aspect of being locked (not really while I am at work, frankly) but she really prefers to feel my physical longing for her.  She is going on a mom's night out next weekend, and she suggested that she may lock me up for that.  We shall see.

My sexual fantasies get a lot more hardcore when I am teased and denied.  My fantasies of her involving another male into our bedroom, her fucking my ass with the strapon, etc., get more intense when she denies me.  She seems to fluctuate on this, so maybe I should also leave this alone for now.
Now tie their cocks together for a little predicament bondage and we’re talking fun!
I fantasize frequently about watching Suzy play with a younger male while I watch.  How did these subs get tied up?  Perhaps by the domme that took the photo!  If she likes my erection, wouldn't she like to play with two?  *Sigh*
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I didn't sleep well last night, and I woke up to a stiff erection.  She noticed it, and stroked my cock with her leg and then rested her hand on top of my cock.  I caressed her, which she obviously enjoyed, but she refused a morning orgasm.  But it does appear that she will be up to playing more tonight.  I hope I can come!

Saturday, July 7, 2012

Our Sex Statistics; A midsummer night's analysis

Now that the year is half over, I thought it would be a good idea to take some time to review our sex life.  I used to keep a spreadsheet of our sexual liasons, but have now added it to the orgasm tracker page.  I think it's accurate, and I now have seven months of reliable data to analyze.

From mid-December until end of June (193 days), we have had 61 sexual encounters.  My Domme Wife has climaxed 64 times in this span, and I have had 20 orgasms. 

That works out to us having a sexual encounter every 3.2 days, or about 2.2 times per week.
My sexy wife climaxes every 3.0 days, or 2.3 times per week.
Her submissive husband climaxes every 9.65 days, or 0.7 times per week.
He is granted orgasm on 33% of our sexual encounters; denied orgasm 67% of the time.
My Domme wife climaxes 3.2 times per every climax she allows me.
I believe the longest I have remained chaste was 23 days (April 27-May 20).

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As they say, the numbers are what they are.  I enjoy our sex play.  There have been many sexual highlights this year, and many fun times to come.  For me, sex is getting better and better.  I like that Suzy is accepting of me to be myself, and that she is willing to explore sex more and more.  I hope that she would say that she is enjoying sex now more than ever.  I would like her to comment - one way or another!  My perception of her enjoyment of sex dramatically increases my own enjoyment.  There is nothing sexier than a confident wife that loves having sex, enjoying the pleasure her submissive husband wants to give her, and enjoying the stimulation she give to him! 
Man, my Mr. Potato Head never came with THAT!
Hmm, I wonder what happens if we stick this thing in there!
I think we have just scratched the surface of our sexuality.  I look forward to a great second half of the year, with lots of pleasure, bonding, and fantasy exploration on the horizon!

Love you, Suzy!

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Unfortunately, Suzy was diagnosed with walking pneumonia, so I am not sure what sort of sex play we will be having over the next few days.  She did allow a vibrator orgasm last night, and she acknolwedge how much she enjoyed my erection pressing against her.  She said her orgasm was terrific, and that she 'may' need cock tonight.  Gotta go get her book two of 50 shades of grey!


Female sexual domination has been very fun and exciting for us.  It bonds us and keeps the home fires burning!

Wednesday, July 4, 2012

Release is a distant memory

I thought I'd give a quick update.

My Queen broke my chastity cycle by letting me penetrate her, and I came in her awesome pussy.  It had been a pretty long chastity period, with a good amount of teasing.  My release came as a pleasant surprise.  She is taking some summer courses and has developed an illness.  Nonetheless, even in my release she was dominant.  I started penetrating her very slowly, but she said something along the lines of "you'd better go faster and harder than that!".  There is something about her telling me how to fuck that trips my submissive switch.  I did as commanded, and came in short order.
"You will fuck me harder or not fuck me at all!"

Unfortunately, that was the last of our sex play.  Suzy shortly went on her period, and for all I know she is still hosting her monthly visitor.  The last time we had a period, she got quite a few orgasms, and it was on of her shortest periods she's had.  I read that female orgasms help to relieve cramps and reduce the duration.  Anecdotally, that seems to be true for my Queen.

There are a number of things working against us in the sex play department.  First of all, she is very busy with her school.  Second, she has been sick.  She seems to get better, then she gets worse.  I think she has been sick for two weeks, and the symptoms change a bit.  Sickness is one area where we are totally incompatible.  When I get sick (fortunately, not that often), I get insanely horny.  She gets annoyed at how much I want a handjob.  When she is sick, I need to just stay away.  She is never interested in sex when she is sick.  Oh well: in sickness and in health =P

So, we haven't played in over a week.  I am becoming hornier and hornier.  My erections get more spontaneous, especially my morning wood.

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The only thing that happened sexually since that time was this morning.  Suzy has some close friends that she sees for multi-hour long coffee sessions every so often.  Due to various summer schedules, and Suzy's school, they haven't got together in a long time.  As I have blogged about here, I am rather fascinated by girl talk.  What do they talk about when they depart to the restroom?  What do they talk about when there are no dudes around?
Suzy likes to relax with her girlfriends, drinking coffee
 I don't entirely know the answer.

But Suzy did mention some juicy bits around one of her female friends.  I am not sure how much I am at liberty to say.  Suffice it to say that one of her friends' husbands is also interested in cuckolding! 

I do not know what this means.  Does this seem more mainstream?  Does this increase her interest?  I stiffened as she told me the scoop.  I hope she recovers from her illness.  Maybe we can talk and play more after that!