Some people think about, others formally write down and pursue a "bucket list". These are things that you would like to do before you "kick the bucket". Some might want to skydive, others throw out a pitch a major league game, things like that. I have thought about this, and have some ideas in my head, but have never formally written such a list down. Until now. Here is my "sexual bucket list", things that I (in my enhanced, horny state) think that I would like to try with Suzy (and others....) sexually before I kick the bucket. Here goes:
I believe I've blogged about this before, but the idea that I am naked for an extended period of time turns us both on. Given we have children, this doesn't seem possible in the short term. Suzy would somehow prevent access to my clothes. Perhaps throw them in the basement, or lock them in a closet... something like that. But I have no clothing available to me. I cook, massage her, clean, sleep, have sex - all naked. I can't wear clothes. It follows that I wouldn't really be able to go far. Perhaps she does make me "wear" something absurd, like an apron that doesn't cover anything, or something along those lines. She leaves to go out but I must stay home, lounging around naked. Of course, there is a lot of teasing and light erotic "humiliation" of my predicament.
|Darling, would you care for a refreshment?|
I wish to be "taken" by a strapon by Suzy. We have a "feeldoe" strapless strapon, but when we bought it Suzy also bought a strap for additional support. I don't think Suzy is against the idea of using it on me, but we haven't gotten to it yet. Why does this appeal to me? I enjoy most anal sensations, so I wonder if I would also enjoy this. I like the role reversal, where she is fucking me. That feeldoe has a fair amount of girth; I am not sure that I have "accommodated" something that big up there, so I a little nervous about it, frankly. But watching my wife pound me with her jiggling chest just seems like a really big turn on.
|I love the role reversal of a strapon!|
The risk of being caught just seems like such a big rush to me. I don't know what the public indecency laws in my state are, and I certainly don't want to get arrested. But I would like to be naked and have sex with Suzy, where she may be wearing a skirt and just lift it up for penetration, but it would be nonetheless obvious what we were doing, and I would be nude. We could do the deed on our outside deck, with a beautiful view surrounding a beautiful act. I am a nature lover!
|The riskiness of public sex is a real turn-on for me!|
Well, this is something we do play with from time to time. But one thing she hasn't done is actually placed the chastity belt on me by herself. Don't get me wrong: this will hurt me. Even with my substantial nerve endings for feedback, I still find myself in pain placing the device on. I suppose it would look like this: I am tied up and she teases and denies me. Then, she decides that for extra "security" she wants me to be locked. She takes the chastity belt out, pinches and prods me, but eventually gets the device on, and my cock locked. Chastity play is so much more intense when it comes from her; I love it when she clicks the lock herself, but this would be an added dimension in female dominance.
|Locking my cock ~ completely on her own is a real turn on|
I rather enjoy the concept of being 'forced' into doing things that I either truly don't want to do flat out or wouldn't publicly admit to wanting to do it. An example of the former would be wearing women's clothes. I am not interested in 'feminization' (not that there is anything wrong with those that do), but I would become excited if Suzy made me do it, as a punishment/humiliation. Personally, I think I would look ridiculous. But submitting to that would be arousing. An example of the latter would be consuming my own semen. My Suzy is pretty vocal about how disgusting she thinks me male juices are. That's a reason why I don't get that many blowies. I trust her, I bet my ejaculate does taste bad. And, like other males, I have a strong desire for this when I am really horny (as I am now) but I also find it disgusting afterwords. There are two ways I would like to be forced into doing this. One would be for her to give me a ruined orgasm. This keeps my horniness up, and I do believe - if she was sincere about forcing me to do it - that it would be a turn on for me. The other would be if I ejaculate in her pussy and she then sits on my face and forces me to eat our combined juices.
|Being "forced" to do things is also a turn on... the power exchange is a big rush|