She coyly mentioned something about "seeing if he is interested". Wow. I realize that Suzy understands that I find the thought of having another man - a younger man - into our sex life is a turn on for me. She teases me about it from time to time, and I find it very arousing. Sometimes I wonder to what extent she is verbally teasing me and to what extent she is really interested in acting out this fantasy. Are we "playing chicken"?
I fantasize about placing an ad to find a "playmate" for us. I am most aroused by her playing with a younger guy with a bigger dick than I have. Theoretically (or, legally, lol!), Suzy could play with a cock half her age. I guess I am aroused by the notion that she is trying out something different than me. I would imagine that would be a big ego boost for her to have sex with a young stud.
I don't want to freak Suzy out about this. It's been a fantasy more lately and she hasn't really given me much feedback. Would she really want to try it? What would she want to do? Where do we find a guy she would like to have sex with?
|Hmmm... hubby on the left or"friend with benefit" on the right... which will she choose - or does she "want it all"?|
I received a comment in a recent post about what Suzy would do with two cocks, standing at attention. Would she deny one (me) or both? She didn't really say much about that. I could go either way, as long as the "sex is for her pleasure". I suppose things would totally depend on her comfort level.
Here is one scenario. We place a personal ad describing what
Another thing I've thought of is maybe looking for another couple. There is a term called "soft swap" where each couple has sex with their own partner, but in the same room with the other couple. That would be a way to ease into it, so to speak. Perhaps if we both are interested, we could allow for the other husband to have sex with Suzy. Suzy said that she is not interested in me having sex with another woman, but perhaps there are some things she'd be ok with (fingering? cunnilingus? use of a vibrator?). Although this isn't exactly "cuckolding" in the most common sense, a married couple has the advantage that they would (likely) be STD free and maybe even the other husband would be snipped like me (which would be a big relief for me). Not sure if Suzy would be ok with that, but it's potentially a "safer" option.
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At any rate, this could be something that we simply fantasize about, or something we look into further. I am hoping to get her comments about it. A poster on a FLR forum I frequent suggested that men interested in cuckolding get start slowly by using a large dildo as "the other dick" in an effort to get a feel it. The feeldoe we have is MUCH bigger than my cock, so maybe that is something to try. Unfortunately, she hasn't pegged me yet, but that's another post....