I got on the bed fully nude and waited for her. She came in and we gently massaged each other. It wasn't long before I was hard. While she was jerking me off, we talked a little about the ruined orgasm. She asked me questions and I answered as truthfully as I could. I got that sense that she was going to give it another go - try to ruin this one to gather more intel on ruined orgasms. She suggested that and then said that she wouldn't tonight.
She got me close to orgasm several times. In the back of my mind, I was thinking that if I came really hard she would probably want to come herself. That's happened a few times before, where she is turned on by my orgasm and changes her mind. She was teasing me a lot, getting me close, then playing with my balls and then going really slowly on my cock. It was really very pleasurable but she was obviously holding back on my climax.
After quite a bit of this teasing, she took her hand off my genitals, stood over me and said "I changed my mind. I don't want you to orgasm, but I want to come now". Wow. I didn't see that coming! I dutifully got up, shaking, and I asked her how she wanted to come. She said she wanted the vibrator and I fumbled as fast as I could to get it out. She had a tremendous orgasm, and I got my clothes on and cuddled her. I did coax her into another orgasm later, but it didn't seem nearly as spectacular as the first. She did a fair amount of verbal teasing about what a good orgasm she had and how she liked how affectionate I was when I was denied.
There you have it: I had a ruined/minimized orgasm, followed by an intense tease and denial session. Not sure when I will come again! Hoping we play tonight!
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Incidentally, as she was cleaning our bedroom, she came across a few dice that we had used in our first foray into orgasm denial. Not sure if I had posed on this before, but essentially, she rolled a die and I couldn't come until she had had that many orgasm. As she put the dice away, she went out of her way to wave it by my face and smiled. Perhaps that game will be on again.