I massaged her back for about a half an hour while she was checking her various emails and facebook. She seemed aroused by it and asked me to take her bra off and she let me play with her D-cup breasts quite a bit. I don't always get free access like that, so I just went with it. At one point, I stopped to brush my teeth (my motives were pure - I wanted to kiss her!) but she said, "where are you going... get back here and keep rubbing". Wow. I love that kind of dominance! That was a harbinger for things to come! Or not come, in my case!
We watched our weekly show and she received a foot rub and a back rub. We went back up stairs and started our play time. I was wearing an easily removable underwear (Velcro sides) and she had told me earlier I could get out some toys and suggest - but she was in no way obligated to perform - some play session. I bought a couple of new toys from the local adult store, and was hoping to try them. We hadn't had kinky sex in a while, so I was also hoping for that. I was NOT disappointed.
She started out naked, and I caressed her. She complained that my cock wasn't hard enough for her, so I rubbed it against her. We kissed a lot, and she let me suck her nipples. I don't always get nipple action, but when I do, she gets real horny real fast. I got out the Hitachi Magic Wand and pressed it against her clit, and I fingered her G-spot. She came pretty fast. I guess she was horny from all the foreplay she received.
She then went on to stimulating me. She started off slow, with some light ball slapping and teasing my cock. We did a lot this session, so I am trying to be brief. She asked me about denying me orgasm, if that was OK. I said that it was up to her. She seemed pretty intent on denial. If it's one thing I'm learning, it's to better listen to her needs and go with it. She could have changed her mind, but it sure seemed like ejaculation was not in the cards.
|No cock stimulation, no male orgasms for submissive hubby!|
|I told Suzy that it felt like she was treating my balls as a pinata. Nothing came out last night, though! LOL!|
The real intense domination happened next. I bought a "wheel" from the adult store (see photo) and I really wanted to try it... I had no idea what to expect. She was cold, so she got her pajamas on (I was still naked and had my legs spread wide to accept the abuse of my balls) and said she would give it a try. She used really light pressure at first. Those spikes are pointy!!! The skin on the cock shaft is very thin and it was definitely the most sensitive. Even a light touch was pretty intense. My scrotum and perineum areas were much thicker and she could "dig in" on those. Thankfully, I had shaved my balls that morning. She teased me that it made it easier to torture them.
|The Wartenburg Wheel. Used to test nerve responses by health care workers; used by Suzy to torture my balls|
It is pretty hot when after receiving two orgasms herself, and basically just man-handling my balls with little cock stimulation when my wife says "we're almost done here". I asked her if she would let me give her a third orgasm, and much to my delight, she did. She almost always stops at 2. I wonder why she allowed it. Was it that the last ball busting session had turned her on enough for her to want to come again? Not sure, but I really like her climaxes! I think one of the more submissive parts of a session are when the subhub gets out the instruments of torture and then at the end when he puts them away, with the unresolved horniness from the session. She indicated how much she enjoyed the play and that it's possible we could do it again tonight. I realize this is a long post, but a lot happened last night!
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Found this quote from what I regard as a pretty good sex book. It resonates with me:
"People who enjoy light bondage enjoy being rendered passive. They have no choice but to enjoy what a partner is doing to them. They don't have to worry about being a "good" partner who provides pleasure in return. Performance anxiety is virtually eliminated. This can especially appeal to someone who has to be in charge and in control the rest of the time."
"Guide to Getting it on!", 2007 edition, pages 498-499